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The 5 P's of Success

 
Author: Jeff Herring

Success.

Most people want it and have even experienced a measure of it.

But how to achieve success seems to be the troubling question. What most of us don't realize is that we already know the keys to success, we just don't know that we know.

Here's what I mean. Think of an area of your life in which you have had success and/or something that you are really good at. I'm willing to bet that in this area of success/skill, you have used the five P's of success: Preparation-Patience-Persistence-Practice-Passion. Read on and see if any of these look familiar to you.

Preparation - Even if you are just naturally skilled at something, preparation is still a requirement for consistent, long-term success. Sometimes it's education, sometimes it's a written plan, sometimes it's mental preparation, sometimes it's all three. Louis Pasteur said "chance favors the prepared mind." I have found that when your mind is prepared, you notice things that you might not otherwise notice. At the risk of overloading you with the letter P, here's a powerful quote from FSU football coach Bobby Bowmen "Preparation prevents poor performance."

Patience - "God give me patience, and give it to me NOW!" Sometimes I wish it worked that way. Being patient can be tough, especially in our instant gratification culture. Sometimes we fail simply because we were not patient enough. When the opportunity to be successful comes along, we are already long gone. Legendary football coach Vince Lombardi had to wait until late in his life to get his shot at a head coaching job. He then led the Green Bay Packers to victory in the first two Super Bowls. When your opportunity comes, you need to know two things: exactly what you want to do, and exactly how to do it.

Persistence - "In the battle between the rock and the river, the river always wins. Not because the river is stronger or bigger than the rock, but because the river is persistent." Closely related to patience, persistence will get you through the lean years and the hard times. Being able to stick with it is a strong sign of emotional maturity.

Practice - Practice, practice, practice. In this age of entitlement, too many times we believe we deserve success just by showing up. Wrong. The way you get good at something is by doing it over and over and over again until it becomes a part of you. Basketball great Michael Jordan shot hundreds of jump shots each and every day in practice. That's why he was able to make the shot in so many clutch moments, including the last shot of his career that won the 1998 NBA Championship. At the end of an incredible performance, a member of the audience said to a famous violinist, "I'd give my life to play like you." The violinist replied "I did." Practice, practice, practice."

Passion - I am constantly amazed by the power of passion. When you have passion for something, it gets you up early and keeps you up late. You live, eat and breathe it. Hard things become easy, obstacles are simply challenges, and there is no need for excuses.

I trust you have identifies some of these P's in your life in areas where you are skilled and successful. Here's the really neat thing: you can apply these keys to success to virtually any undertaking. Preparation, patience, persistence and practice can be applied to anything you want to do. Sometimes passion can be a little harder to come by. Let's take paperwork for instance. You can apply preparation, patience, persistence and practice, but unless you are very unusual, you won't have a passion for it. The answer is to "take it up a level" and tap into the passion you have to do a good job and succeed. Another example that comes to mind is algebra. Preparation, patience, persistence and practice are all useful. Not many people have a passion for algebra, but I know lots of people who have a passion to get a degree. By the way, contrary to what my teachers told me, I've never, ever used algebra.

S. Truett Cathy, CEO of CHICK-FIL-A has said

"It's easier to succeed than to fail."

And it's true, when you apply preparation, patience, persistence, practice and passion.

Author Bio:

Jeff Herring

Jeff is a marriage and family therapist, singles and relationship coach, mentor coach, speaker, syndicated relationship columnist and author.

Jeff has a full time private practice in Tallahassee in which he specializes in couples, teen and parent counseling. He also is a relationship coach specializing in working with couples and singles. Some of his professional activities include:

==> Internationally syndicated relationship columnist through Knight-Ridder/Tribune Media Services, with a weekly readership of over 10 million worldwide

==> Sought after speaker for organizations, associations, churches, and corporations

==>Twice weekly appearances on The Steve and Sara Show on Magic 107.1

==> Author of "Keep the Changes: 52 Tools for Successful Living" a collection of his best columns, as well as several e-books including "How to Create a Passionate and Loving Relationship.........Forever," "How to Beat the BOZOs: Dealing with difficult people without becoming one," and "Tame Your Teen: THE survival guide for parenting your teenager.

==> Founder and CEO of TheArticleGuy.com

==> Founder and CEO of SecretsofGreatRelationships.com

==> Founder and CEO of ParentingYourTeeanger.com

==> Founder and CEO of ToolsforSuccessfulLiving.com

==> President of BuildingYourIdealPractice.com

==> President of ConsciousDatingTallahassee.com

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