Everything that can go wrong will go wrong. Its Murphys Law and its in force for the holidays too. But dont worry, youre not alone here are just a few stressful worst-case scenarios from my Thanksgivings.

The oven blinks out on Thanksgiving

The sink backs up just before the dinner is readybeen there!

The toilet overflows.ick.

and besides these blatant calamities, I bet you know this one:

Is it done yet?

What is it about the turkey that you can always count on? Cooking time always takes MUCH longer than anticipatedand while you wait, everyone gets sloshed on cocktails and full of appetizers. And thats when you find out about

No Sugar, No Wheat, No Meat, No Nuts

Your guests are on new diets: vegetarian, vegan, no-sugar, no wheat and no dairy. And, (think hazelnut stuffing)no nuts! Too bad you didnt know sooner

What can you really DO? Sure you can turn into a super control freak but your stress levels will go through the roof. Try these three practical tips and enjoy the ride:

All systems GO

Check all physical systems: stove, fridge, and plumbing. Gas in the car, and air in the tires.These systems seem to collapse in anticipation of lots of guests.

Delegatedont try to do it all alone

This is a time for doing things together. Get help with planning, shopping, decorating, preparing and cooking. Dont go it alone. For special diet requests, tell people to bring dishes that they can eat.

Have a good laugh

Laughter is a top proven remedy for stress. Have a good laugh about the fiascos and the unexpected. Everyone will remember laughing and celebrating.

Just in case something goes wrong, you can still have a grand time enjoying it!

Enjoy the Holidays with Less Stress!