Movement to a new area, change of circumstance, job or security issues may have brought about a new loneliness when regularly home alone with only the cat and the dishes. Managing life at this time can demand total commitment with only a spare few moments to have a friendly chat with the neighbors. Online dating doesn't have to lead to a life partner moving in but the process can do its best to find a collection of dates of similar intellect and interests. Initial interaction can take place over the Internet saving all the bother and time of discovering the most respectable meeting places for the average person. Dialogue can enter straight into matters of interest and importance rather than the importance of the preferred drink. Some may appeal, some may be boring and just secretly searching for the life partner too. You have the benefit of being able to make an assessment on quality dialogue within a short space of time rather than wasting the precious commodity between weekly meetings. A friendship doesn't have to continue if not going anywhere. The neighbors will be yours for as long as you choose but a deeper relationship with either partner may not be welcomed. Copyright 2006 Patricia Little |
